Dating after 50 is growing fast — and the app landscape has finally caught up. Silver Singles and OurTime are the two dedicated platforms for mature singles. Here is how they compare in 2026.
Silver Singles
Silver Singles requires all users to be 50+ and takes matching seriously. After signing up you complete a detailed personality assessment based on the Big Five model. The algorithm uses this to send you 3–7 highly compatible daily matches. Profiles are detailed and the user base is intentionally relationship-focused.
Price: ~$27–$40/mo | Best for: 50+ singles who want algorithm-driven compatible matches
Pros: Age-filtered, strong algorithm, no young users, quality-focused
Cons: Expensive, small pool in smaller cities, no free messaging
OurTime
OurTime is part of the Match Group family and has a broader approach — it is 50+ but more casual about the relationship type. You can state whether you want dating, friendship, a long-term relationship, or marriage. The interface is simpler and less algorithm-heavy, more like a traditional profiles-based site.
Price: ~$20–$30/mo | Best for: 50+ singles who want to browse freely
Pros: Easy to use, broader relationship goals, large user base
Cons: More fake profiles reported, less rigorous matching
Head-to-Head
| Category | Silver Singles | OurTime |
|---|---|---|
| Age requirement | 50+ | 50+ |
| Matching type | Algorithm | Browse + Algorithm |
| Free tier messaging | ❌ | ❌ |
| Best for | Serious relationships | All relationship types |
Our Pick
For long-term relationships: Silver Singles. For flexibility and browsing: OurTime. Many users run both — Silver Singles for algorithm matches, OurTime for browsing additional profiles.
